There have been upsets in the past few weeks that nearly brought me to my knees. I won’t dwell on the details here, now, because there were bright spots that made the period tolerable.
Weeding, usually a chore, gave Peter and me reason to smile. I looked out his window last week and noticed the flower beds had been invaded by tall, prickly weeds that were about to flower and overrun the space. “Let’s go out and tackle them,” I said. He was on his way before I finished my sentence. We worked for an hour and pulled a huge pile for someone else to pick up!
The next day I mentioned to Peter’s longtime helper Mark that Peter wanted to dig up the beds and plant something nice. That very afternoon, by the time I arrived, they’d shopped for flowers and planted them in a large red pot Mark brought from home. A mini-sunflower, blue balloon flowers, and fushia Million Bells now brighten Peter’s view.
Happy in a flower pot.
Another time one of the aides made me laugh when she said that my husband has “favorites” he pushes along the hall in their wheelchairs. The thought that my husband was pushing the “old dears” (a kindly English expression) absolutely astounded me!
Happy on wheels.
Another evening, as he walked me towards the exit, he stage-whispered, “Watch out for ‘im.” He nodded toward another resident who used a walker to toddle along. “‘E’s up to no good.” The other fellow watched Peter out of the corner of his eye, and when Peter drew abreast, they pointed their index fingers at each other and said, “Pow! Pow!”
Happy are six-year-olds playing cowboys.
Another of Peter’s carers was outside watering plants yesterday. “Look who’s out there,” Peter said. His smile was incandescent.
“I see,” I said, “do you want to go help her?”
“I’m going,” he said, and headed to the door. “Oops!” he said and stopped long enough to kiss me. “Bye, luv, see you next time.” He was gone.
Sometimes even “gone” can be happy.
Header photo: A neighbor’s sunny peonies make me smile.
2016 National Society of Newspaper Columnists’ contest finalist.
Chins up, thanks for the tender vignettes.
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Your writing softens the harsh reality with smiles. 💕
Thanks, Chick. <3
Taking happy where it can be found. Lovely post, Mom.
Thanks, Honey <3
Another sweet post giving hope and beautyto us all.💗
Flowers brighten all our days.. take the brightness when we can ❤️
You need those bright spots.
I’ll take all I can get. 😉
So glad to know you always find happy moments and reasons to smile even among the upsets. Love the flower pot they planted.
Thanks, Robin. It’s surviving after a week and in searing temps. Yay.